Year 2020-2021.
A year when people found out the damage a microscopic virus
can cause. A pandemic, which wasn’t remotely mentioned in our science books. A
pandemic, no one was prepared for, on the face of this planet.
Why am I saying this?
It’s time we planned for the upcoming contingencies. The virus
was still an unexpected tool that could give the entire world a blinding
concussion. Luckily, the calamity I foresee, can be statistically and
scientifically seen.
Year 2050
There’s no virus as medical advancements have ensured the
increased lifespan of the humans. There’s peace enough to keep the nukes at bay.
The biggest problem the world is facing is a simple term that was ignored or
managed at micro level called ‘depression’. Something which does not have a
vaccine. Something that cannot be cured in a day or just a few months.
(Sounds like a bold statement with
no logical base whatsoever. Right? But hold on. Read further and you shall know.)
Year 1990
So people are socializing big time. We have guests at our
place almost every single day. My mother’s side of the family live in an old
type of a residential structure called as a ‘Waada’. A lot of wooden pillars with intricate designs
which had deep meaning to every single design engraved on it. The rooms are rather very small considering the size of the
family. The family size usually exceeds a headcount of 7. Joint families
aren’t a rare sight. The radio is the most entertaining device which many can
afford.

Now that the family
is living in such a limited space, there aren’t much options for the family
members to isolate themselves and let their ego calm down after a small argument
with some family member. The best option is to vent out and drain the emotional
load by talking to someone in the family and solving it. ( And Boy Oh Boy it
feels great after just venting out every emotion!). So basically in every joint
family, you are not just the child of your parents. Nor are you the only child
for them. Everyone gets to pamper and scold you at times. There’s always a buzz
in the house. No melancholic silence to put you in the over thinking zone.
Newly married couples in the house wait for the entire day for that moment when
they can go down for a stroll post dinner and just talk in private
for a few
minutes. That is the happiest part of the day for them.
The telephone exists
(Landline). You also have a directory of people living in your area so you can
just dial up anyone you need. But, the charges are just economic enough to not
go on for hours talking over the phone. People often call their friends just to
decide the time and place for catching up. Well as of for us kids, we’re not
allowed to call our friends for stupid reasons. If we want to call each other
downstairs to play, we have the liberty to scream the names of our friends from
the bottom of heart (and that too in a particular way). No one really gets mad
if we shout or play. There aren’t many cars parked downstairs so no complaints
for damaging them.
Year 1950
The cities aren’t buzzed at all. Most of our grandparents
reside in rural parts of the country. My great grandfather has a big solid
black horse on which he rides to different places. NO POLLUTION. He often falls
asleep on his way back at night while riding and yet the horse brings him back
to our house safely (Please note that GPS and autopilot haven’t been invented
yet). People aren’t remotely rich. It’s all about survival. There’s a lot of
physical struggle in the farm. We have a couple of cows, a dog, a horse, couple
of sheep and a few hens for the eggs and not for the meat. Also, we treat them
as family even thought we aren’t animal rights activists. People are the only
source of entertainment for people. If you’re an introvert, well you can sit by
the river and watch birds and the sunset.

The men gather in the
temples at morning before leaving for their farm-work to have a little chitchat.
Later in the evening, they often catch up in a place often known as ‘Chavdi’
which is like a socializing spot (And they don’t charge you for sitting there
too!!). Women grind their grains together while
singing the folk songs. There’s
more of a barter trade of veggies than buying them from the market. The wealth
of the person is not decided by the bank balance but by the number of grain
sacks they have in their homes.
“Come to the point Anurag”
Little things which
give us immense happiness have started fading into the dark. Our homes are
getting bigger and our families smaller. We are struggling to find happiness. All
the businesses in the world are simply creating an environment where we, the people,
are psychologically tricked into ‘just keep buying. You’ll feel good’ zone. Friendship
is all about texting regularly with your friends and showing off how amazing
your life is when you’re feeling all lonely and alone in reality.
The entire concept of
love has been turned into more like a contractual deal. The way the new
generation is getting used to watching intimate stuff in their day to day life,
the gravity of the intimacy is dropping down. Young couples are struggling to
find their so called spark. And it is going to be a consistent problem in future
as everything that needs to be said will be said over text (Which does not
convey any sort of emotions despite using a thousand emojis). The awkward
silence after two people meet will continue to exist in the long run although
it is only meant to exist in the first meet.
Teenagers are better
off isolated in their rooms with their phones than socializing with people or
as a matter of fact even their parents. Devices, cars, businesses are all
getting smarter while we lose our natural capabilities. Parents these days are
often so deeply engrossed in their careers that they have no time to even
cuddle with their kids or spend time with them. The value system of the present
generation needs to take a look down the lane of the past. If family, health
and happiness are not the outcomes of anything we do, it really isn’t worth. (Easy
said than done I Know. But not impossible).
"So basically the 'nothing can replace water despite technology' theory?"
There’s a reason why
the lion is called the king of the jungle. The family of Lion is called a ‘Pride’
as nothing else matters more to them than that. Technology can be used for
good. Production of scale is a good thing to a certain limit. If it is done for
the sake of sole profitability, it is a misuse of the technology. Certain
things do not need an alternative. We humans have made carbonated drinks which
are sweeter than water. But on a summer afternoon we only crave for water. Similarly,
Motorbikes can only be an alternative for cycles and not an upgraded version of
them. The utility of the thing should not be decided without SWOT analysis.
People now have remotes to switch on the lights, fans. If we do not wish to get
up, switch on the button and sit back down, we do not have the right to
complain if we become obese.
Driving a car to get to
the office and back home, just to save time so that you can spend it in the gym
riding a stationary bicycle doesn’t make sense! The entire world is running
behind convenience, effortless life and MONEY. It’s all good until we realize
that we’ve come to a dead end only to find ourselves depressed. Remember in
early 2000s, the mobile phone was a great luxury. 20 years later, every single
kid from the rural areas too has a cell phone. Health, a sharp brain, happiness
and a close big family shall only be the true riches of life in future.
Don’t
forget to jump off this chaotic train of instant gratification and shallow
happiness.